
I’ve been blogging for many years and it doesn’t seem like I will get tired of writing anytime soon. This May will be the one year anniversary of Bella Vida by Letty .com. Thinking about that made me want to share some tips that sure could’ve helped me way back when I first began blogging.
Self Host
If you plan on blogging seriously the main piece of advice I wish I would have taken was to begin with a self hosted WordPress site. I was on blogger for years cultivating a steadily growing following but when I moved from Blogger to WordPress I lost all of my followers and subscribers. I had to begin all over again.
Domain Name
When you decide on a name purchase the domain name. It shows professionalism and authority. Here’s a previous post where I list several more reasons why it’s important to own your own domain name.
Analytics
Set up Google analytics right from the start. It is the most trusted and reliable. You can learn all sorts of helpful information like what keywords bring in the most visitors and who your audience is. That is exactly who you are writing for.
Quality Content
The quality of your content matters. Everything you post lives online forever. Take your time to write a proper thoroughly researched post with great photos. It will receive much more traffic than a hurried one and it will likely get shared because of its useful information. Don’t worry the more you write, the better you get. That has been my experience.
Grow Organically
I’m happy to report the site has been steadily organically growing since day one. I don’t believe in paying for followers, hits, likes, etc. The main reason is a major factor to measure a blogs success is engagement. You might not have a lot of subscribers but if you are steadily growing a community who replies and shares your content you are well on your way. All it takes is time.
Bonus
Build a Community
It’s easy to get caught up in wondering why another blog might have more traffic, ads or sponsors but you shouldn’t compare yourself to them. You are your own unique voice and it’s up to you to cultivate your brand. Connect with other bloggers you admire and build relationships with them. I belong to several different communities which you will find on my sidebar. Reach out, makes friends and build your community.
Your turn. What things have you learned from your years of blogging? If you had to pick your greatest lesson what would it be?
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“We do not grow absolutely, chronologically. We grow sometimes in one dimension, and not in another; unevenly. We grow partially. We are relative. We are mature in one realm, childish in another. The past, present, and future mingle and pull us backward, forward, or fix us in the present. We are made up of layers, cells, constellations.” Anaïs Nin
“The only way that we can live, is if we grow. The only way that we can grow is if we change. The only way that we can change is if we learn. The only way we can learn is if we are exposed. And the only way that we can become exposed is if we throw ourselves out into the open. Do it. Throw yourself.” C. JoyBell C.
“Often, it’s not about becoming a new person, but becoming the person you were meant to be, and already are, but don’t know how to be.” Heath L. Buckmaster

I want to commend Nadia, the Niche Mommy Network and conference staff for putting together such a great event. It was my first time attending the Niche Parent Conference. The intimate atmosphere left time for lots of networking. I connected with many online friends for the first time in person and reconnected with many friendly familiar faces I hadn’t seen in awhile. This is a great conference to attend if you are ready to take your blog to the next level so keep an eye out for next year’s dates.
There were many interesting panels and workshops to choose from focusing on things like the business of blogging to advice on growing your blog. These are some of the sessions I attended along with some of the wonderful things I learned.
How Much is it Worth? The State of Social Media with Ted Murphy, CEO of IZEA, Inc
Ted Murphy has many years of experience building businesses. One of my favorite takeaways from this session was his insistence that bloggers must get paid for their time and work. It does take anywhere from 6 to 8 hours to edit photos and write great content. Not to mention the cost of equipment. It takes money to run a business. Value yourself and your work and others will too.
#NicheParent13 @tedmurphy the quality of your #blog content is what counts the most #blogging tips
— Letty () September 6, 2013
How to Grow Your Email List, Influence, and Monetize your Blog with Laura Fuentes of Momables and SuperGlue Mom
One of my favorite sessions was given by Laura Fuentes. She spoke frankly and honestly about her journey as a blogger and shared step by step how she grew her platform. It was an information packed session and I learned many things which I will be implementing in the near future.
#NicheParent13 @SuperGlueMom focus on brands & products you like & use #blogging tips
— Letty () September 6, 2013
Secrets for a Successful Freelance Writing Career with Lorraine C. Ladish
Lorraine has many years of experience as both writer and editor. As a writer it was wonderful to learn industry insights. One of her best tips was not to take criticism personally and maintain good relationships. In an industry in flux you never where they or you might work next.
#NicheParent13 @lorrainecladish of @MAMIVERSE freelance #writers need to treat it as a #Business & learn the #Writing craft
— Letty () September 6, 2013
Start-up Secrets & Tools for the 21st Century Woman with Celest Benn & Divina Rodriguez
I’m glad I attended this session because it refocused me onto a business mindset and both speakers were very motivating.
#NicheParent13 #sexystartup @TrumpetingMedia @DancingHotdogs decide if you want to run a lifestyle or buyout company then put a number onit
— Letty () September 6, 2013
Past the Pitch: Brand Relationship 2.0 with Sili Recio and Eileen Campos
In this session Sili shared her media kit and gave great tips on how to pitch brands. Not only did she share great information but she gave us yummy samples of International Delight creamers in different flavors. Thanks Sili, who knows a girls gotta have her cup of coffee every day.
Vlogging – Making it Practical, Fun & Professional with Caroline Murphy
As an artist I always find myself behind the camera and never really thought about being in front of it. Caroline of Smarty Pants Mama spoke with such energy and enthusiasm I just might give a try soon. Thanks for the inspiration and Cover Girl Lipsticks. You know how much I love makeup don’t you?
The Content is the Ad with Ted Rubin
Social marketing strategist and author of Return on Relationship gave his wonderful insight reminding us it is not the amount of followers nor the size of your audience rather the quality of interaction. Learn who your audience is and engage them.
Blogger/Brand Playbook: The Top Spoken and Unspoken Rules of Engagement between brands, bloggers, and blogger networks with Crystal Duncan of IZEA Inc., Courtney Velasquez of Collective Bias, Latina Mom Bloggers, Cristy Clavijo-Kish, Latina Mom Bloggers
#blogging tips fr @latinamomblogs @CrystalDuncan @CourtneyRix Brands love #bilingual #blogs #NicheParent13
— Letty () September 7, 2013
New FTC Disclosures: What Marketers & Bloggers Need to Know with SOWEB Inc.
It’s better to be honest and authentic rather than dishonest. Always disclose and you won’t have any problems, your audience will respect you more.
Blogging 101: How to Make Something Out of Nothin’ with Vanessa Bell, Eileen Carter-Campos & Chaton Turner
#blogging101 #NicheParent13 tips from @EileenCCampos keep it real go for what you know
— Letty () September 7, 2013
#Blogging101 #NicheParent13 write with an audience in mind
— Letty () September 7, 2013
I enjoy attending conferences, learning new things and networking.
What conferences do you recommend for taking your blog or business to the next level?
Three weeks ago announced the capability to embed photos because it was its most requested feature since they disabled the twitter share capability. This is fantastic because now I don’t have to download the photos from my phone then upload them again to my website.

On the Instagram website it says you will see a new share button but for some reason I don’t see that share button on my laptop. I do see three dots. So whether you see the share button or the three dots when clicked, you get the embed option. Simply copy the code and paste it into your preferred editor. I currently use WordPress.

When you use this code you do not have to worry about photo credit, a link right back to your instagram profile appears right above the photo along with creator’s username, the number of Likes and comments it has received. Regardless of where it is embedded everyone can see who the content belongs too. Another important note is ONLY photos marked public can be embedded.
10 Reasons to Use Instagram


Have you used the instagram embed feature yet? What do you think?
Are we connected on instagram? If not, leave your links in the comments.
The Niche Mommy Network Announces
The Niche Parent Social Media Conference 2013

#NicheParent13
Connect with the best in social media, marketing, and entrepreneurship at the Niche Parent Conference. The setting will be intimate at 200 attendees to allow meaningful connections between attendees, speakers, and brands present. The conference features a workshop-style agenda giving bloggers hands-on professional development.
Attendees will have a lot to look forward to at this year’s Niche Parent Conference! This year’s conference will offer socially savvy moms and dads headliner keynotes including Ted Rubin, Ted Murphy, CEO of IZEA, Miriam Muley, expert and published author on marketing to women and women of color. Like last year, there will be hands-on innovative workshops taught by Collective Bias and other industry leaders. Empowering sessions will round off our agenda to elevate attendees’ blogs and brands. Finally, Momprenuers and Dadprenuers will walk away with tool-kits to get their startups off the ground AND generating revenue.
Sounds amazing right?! That’s why I wanted to share it with you.
Save the Date: Thursday, September 5th – Saturday, September 7th, 2013

The Niche Parent Conference will be taking place at the beachfront Westin Diplomat Resort & Spa in Ft. Lauderdale, Florida aka paradise. This hotel is ranked in the top 100 meeting hotels in the U.S. by Cvent. Unlike other conferences I’ve been the hotel is family friendly and includes a Kids’ zone for children offering a range of activities.
You do not have to be a parent blogger to attend the conference. I am a lifestyle blogger and will be attending because it’s a great opportunity fine tune my skills as well as network with sponsors and fellow bloggers.
An example of the workshops I’m looking forward to:
These are just a few of the workshops going on during the conference and they continue to add more. You can read about them HERE:
Will you be attending?
This will be my first time and I look forward to seeing you there. Don’t forget to purchase your discounted ticket via the above link or the badge in my sidebar.
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This is a sponsored post opinions are mine.
I am excited to announce I will be opening my blog to guest posts for a brand new blogging series. It will be a great way to network and discover new interesting bloggers you might not otherwise come across. The objective of the series is to empower one another with our best blogging and/or business tips. I want to learn about you and your blog while sharing our best advice with others.
What is guest posting?
Guest posting means writing and publishing an article on someone else’s website or blog. In this case your article will be published on Bella Vida by Letty.
10 Benefits of Guest Posting

10 Benefits of Guest Posting
– It gives you and your blog exposure to a new audience.
– It’s a way to grow your platform.
– Creates relationships with other bloggers.
– Links back to your blog are good for your SEO and rankings.
– Build the reputation of a real expert in your niche.
– Get introduced to new niches you were unaware of.
– Create an impressive online resume.
– Learn from other bloggers.
– Increase your influence.
– Build your writing credentials.
Do you want to guest post on this blog?
I am looking for quality, insightful and opinionated posts from people who have blogs. These are posts in which you share your experience, thoughts and knowledge. Don’t be afraid to submit even if your blog is new, I’m sure you have something teachable to share.
All guest posts will be highly promoted across all of my social media platforms and will be pinned to my shiny new board at the top of my Pinterest profile.

Submission Guidelines:
1. To be considered, submit a well written original article between 500 and 1000 words. Tell us about your blog in such an exciting way and share your most amazing tip, we will want to visit immediately after reading the post.
2. The subject of your blog post may be business, entrepreneurship, blogging, leadership or empowerment. Your submission should answer one or more of the following questions.
3. Required: What 5 categories or keywords describe your blog? (ie. art, fashion, feminism, tech, business, travel, etc.)
4. Please attach a photo of yourself and your blog logo.
5. Don’t forget to include: Your Name, a one or two sentence bio, Blog Name, and Blog url.
6. Email to: [email protected]
Resources
Here are some great tips about guest posting from some of the biggest professional bloggers:
7 Crucial Tactics for Writing a Wildly Successful Guest Post
How to Guest Post to Promote Your Blog
8 Essential Do’s And Don’ts Of Guest Posting
How to Write a Killer Guest Post: The Art of the Clickthrough
Guest Blogging: The Ultimate Guide
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Style is the perfection of point of view.
The internet and blogging platforms are the greatest things ever invented in my opinion. Previously we were stuck with only one view, the corporate owned media who generates content purely to sell products. Most of which is harmful to our self esteem. It’s not healthy to be bombarded with messages telling you how much you need to improve this or that. The beauty of reading blogs is exposure to alternative perspectives.
Every blog has a particular voice. Writing voice is the uniqueness of an authors writing style. It’s not just the words they use but also the perspective they bring to them. On this blog I write about subjects I care about. One tends to write more passionately about things we find important. I use certain expressions and certain styles which all contribute to my unique voice.
The more you develop your voice the more successful you will become with your readers. Infusing your writing with your personality helps engage your audience. Revealing your personality gives you authenticity making you a reliable source to your audience.
10 Steps to Finding Your Blogs Writing Voice

10 Steps to Finding Your Blogs Writing Voice

Style is the perfection of point of view.
The more you write the easier it will be to find your voice. How would you describe your unique voice?
If you have a blog be sure to leave it in the links so I can visit.
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“For last year’s words belong to last year’s language and next year’s words await another voice.” T.S. Eliot
“Raise your words, not voice. It is rain that grows flowers, not thunder.” Rumi
“Reading is the sole means by which we slip, involuntarily, often helplessly, into another’s skin, another’s voice, another’s soul.” Joyce Carol Oates
“When people don’t express themselves, they die one piece at a time.” Laurie Halse Anderson
“If you hear a voice within you say „you cannot paint“, then by all means paint and that voice will be silenced.” Vincent van Gogh
“Don’t let the noise of others’ opinions drown out your own inner voice.” Steve Jobs